Phone Sex

Phone Sex

There is nothing wrong with phone sex. It is however, different. In person and online, hands on and remote, all versions get results but they are different. We may be moving into an online futuristic no contact society. An HBO special called Sex-On explored all the new ways people are having sex including an AI vagina that could be “manned” by a service provider to act out the spoken words of phone sex while the client was on a video call with his sex provider. Why am I talking about sex? Many people are not energy sensitive and speaking about energy to them is like talking to a four year old about the difference between sex and making love. Most people are familiar with sex and that the “energy” of sex plays a vital part in how the sex goes, how it feels. Using sex as an analogy can help people to understand how important “energy” is and that energy and actual human contact is different than pure energy.

You are pure energy. That is your soul and you chose to incarnate to experience the duality of energy and matter because there are learnings available on earth, in matter, that are not available when one is a ball of light. This says to me that human contact, human interaction is as important as the experiences of energy when you are incarnated here on earth. You have the opportunity to transcend. Incarnation gives you that opportunity. You can rise to the occasion, after all you signed up for it. Therefore, at least in this era, running away from the inconveniences of incarnation is not the best of choices if you are interested in living an awakened life, in transcendence unless your life path is one of abstinence.  For those of you who have never practiced any kind of abstinence (fasting, voluntary poverty, celibacy) trust me when I say that it too has challenges especially in the beginning. This is something to think about if you do practice abstinence; are you running away or are you taking on a practice to help you with transcendence, and how can you be sure”?

In this era, online, texting, and social medial prevail. There is a trend of decline in the skills of human relations in the workplace (management skills, worker reliability, conflict resolution, integrity) as well as social skills such as parenting, honesty, authenticity, conflict resolution, intimacy and many more areas. Humans are social creatures and learning to be social simply cannot happen online. Learning about and working with Spiritual Energies is a different experience in person than online. You might prefer online; make sure you understand your choice and consider if you are choosing avoidance rather than engagement.

This is not a one or another choice, online or in-person. It is a matter of discernment and conscious choosing. If you have unhealed shame you will have a harder time being your authentic self, in person. If you have unhealed shame you might think you are an introvert. Heal the shame and you might discover you are actually not an introvert. In person has one element that online does not, feelings. Just like you watch tv you get desensitized to feelings and emotions. You get used to watching violence and love on tv without the benefit, or challenge, of having emotions. Yes you react to tv and movies, but that is completely different. You are reacting to a portrayal that is triggering you rather than feeling emotions that are arising from your authentic self. This is difficult to explain in words and better shown via an energetic experience. Choosing to stay away from in person encounters, choosing ghosting, you lose the ability to experience and handle uncomfortable feelings and challenging human interactions. You will not be able to learn and use vital everyday skills such as conflict resolution and decision making. You will also lose the ability to make cosmic love because that too has challenging feelings, of ecstasy, intimacy, authenticity and so much more.

This is a personal journey that will be different for each individual person, finding your balance between online/remote and in person. Pay attention to your choices.

Journey On

Dr. Marie