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Phone Sex

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Phone Sex There is nothing wrong with phone sex. It is however, different. In person and online, hands on and remote, all versions get results but they are different. We may be moving into an online futuristic no contact society. An HBO special called Sex-On explored all the new ways people are having sex including an AI vagina that could be “manned” by a service provider to act out the spoken words of phone sex while the client was on a video call with his sex provider. Why am I talking about sex? Many people are not energy sensitive and speaking about energy to them is like talking to a four year old about the difference between sex and making love. Most people are familiar with sex and that the “energy” of sex plays a vital part in how the sex goes, how it feels. Using sex as an analogy can help people to understand how important “energy” is and that energy and actual human contact is different than pure energy. You are pure energy. That is your soul and you chose

Becoming comfortable with who you are

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Being on a Spiritual Path, working with a Teacher, going to therapy, participating in 12-Step, doing Shadow Work only succeeds to the degree you participate, to the degree you can be honest and your ability to not run away when the "work" or Path becomes challenging. Working with a Teacher or therapist is like going to the gym All the equipment will be there but it is up to you to use it......or not. One of the biggest challenges in soul evolution and human growth is the ability to face, feel and stay with uncomfortable feelings and to discuss them with your mentor or support group rather than run away in a huff, leave or ghost in order to"punish" the other person for daring to give you the guidance and feedback you have been so desperate to receive. Image presentation is rampant in this era with the concerns of social media outweighing the desire for personal growth and it has become increasingly difficult for people to be honest with themselves, never mind

Being "spiritual" doesn't "save" you

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Being “spiritual” doesn’t “save” you What has drawn you to spirituality?   For many people it is fun, something to do over lunch and wine. It has become a substitute “church” community for those dissatisfied with Christian (or other organized religions) churches but still longing for a “community” or sometimes just contact with “like-minded” folks.   Like the yoga industry, the new age industry also offers so many cool things to buy and wear and great retreats to attend.   These are certainly much better pursuits than drinking in a bar and not everyone finds community in sports.   This article is not for you. Others are pursuing what they consider a spiritual path because they think it will make them a better person, or give them a career, or because they dislike themselves and think (or hope) that by being (acting like) a   “good” girl or boy they will be forgiven, that they will be rewarded (hopefully in this life), or perhaps because of low self-esteem they hope

Hanging out with the Masters

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 Hanging out with the “Masters” Before there was formal education there was apprenticeship. If you were lucky enough, a mentor would agree to take you on and you would learn trade skills, a career, and life skills by immersing yourself in the life of a mentor and shadowing him/her. A modern version is called hands on learning which is close to an apprenticeship, but more formal and less immersion. Hands-on learning applies book knowledge to real life application. You use all of your senses, including your intuition when you are engaged with hands-on learning and by being immersed in the experience of working with a mentor. Apprenticeship, immersion learning, hands-on is also the only way to learn “culture”. As a teacher most of my students were from poorer families, many were ex-gang members, and some were homeless.   They were going to college to improve their lives and one of the things I taught them was to go hang out in Beverly Hills or whatever neighborhood had