It's All About..... well, not ME!
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So many people come to a session depressed or angry, sometimes silent and resigned. Once they get started talking about what is wrong with someone else (children, spouse, lover, in-laws, boss etc) they become animated, present .... and brilliant. Unfortunately the brilliance is typically about the other person. When talking about themselves, the brilliant analysis disappears. Worse, their energy levels sinks again to apathy, despair, grief, anger etc. Often their response about looking at themselves is "whatever" or "it is what it is" or "let it go." Too bad this response is not applied to analyzing others, since we cannot change others so we might as well indeed let go of a brilliant animated analysis .... of someone else and his/her life.
Why aren't people so inspired by their own lives, and as interested in their own workings and evolution? I suspect it is in part because people find it easier to talk, than change behaviors. If people talk about themselves, there is no reason to not change behaviors. If people talk about others, there is no pressure for them to take action, except perhaps in reaction to protect themselves.
Often when people find themselves in a tough spot, they want to know where are their Spirit Guides? Where is their Guidance? Well, if you are focused on the other person, you are not opening yourself to Guidance. Your discussions, analysis, and questions are all about what is wrong with the other person and how to change them. Your Guides will not address that. They cannot address that. They are here for you, your growth.
Spiritual growth is related to psychology and human growth which includes body/mind/spirit (your beliefs, your practice, etc). Why? Because you incarnated. You chose to have a body, a mind, logic, language. If you had stayed a ball of light, your lessons would be different and occur mainly through osmosis (the only word in language that comes close to describing the work of energy). If you don't do your human growth work along with your Spiritual work/play, your Guides cannot help you. They are not here to help you escape the trials and tribulations of Earth, rather to face them head on so you can clear, grow, expand, enjoy (rather than fake enjoy and posting that on Facebook). Try to keep escaping, examining the lives of others rather than examine why you made the choices you made (and perhaps got in the mess, or relationship you did) and see what your Guides will do. They will escalate the lessons, to get your attention and get you back on track. Escalate-- meaning the lessons roll in harder, often much harder, depending on how stubborn you are or how much you are committed to avoidance (focusing on others, drinking to get high, weed etc to get high, tv, too much sex for the wrong reason, the "whatever" attitude, the "choose happy" attitude chosen for avoidance rather than a change in energy-- the latter being very healthy).
Take care of business, your business, and watch the joy, peace, happiness and new freedoms roll in along with the Spiritual Gifts granted to you by your Guides as you progress. Don't punish your self by only working on yourself, or being stern and working on yourself like you have been bad or need to be "fixed" or punished. Take care of business in a balanced manner. Weave in play, timing, surrender, acceptance, self care and self love, along with warrior energy (yin and yang versions) and make it as fun as you can. See what happens.... this is when the Miracles occur.
So many people come to a session depressed or angry, sometimes silent and resigned. Once they get started talking about what is wrong with someone else (children, spouse, lover, in-laws, boss etc) they become animated, present .... and brilliant. Unfortunately the brilliance is typically about the other person. When talking about themselves, the brilliant analysis disappears. Worse, their energy levels sinks again to apathy, despair, grief, anger etc. Often their response about looking at themselves is "whatever" or "it is what it is" or "let it go." Too bad this response is not applied to analyzing others, since we cannot change others so we might as well indeed let go of a brilliant animated analysis .... of someone else and his/her life.
Why aren't people so inspired by their own lives, and as interested in their own workings and evolution? I suspect it is in part because people find it easier to talk, than change behaviors. If people talk about themselves, there is no reason to not change behaviors. If people talk about others, there is no pressure for them to take action, except perhaps in reaction to protect themselves.
Often when people find themselves in a tough spot, they want to know where are their Spirit Guides? Where is their Guidance? Well, if you are focused on the other person, you are not opening yourself to Guidance. Your discussions, analysis, and questions are all about what is wrong with the other person and how to change them. Your Guides will not address that. They cannot address that. They are here for you, your growth.
Spiritual growth is related to psychology and human growth which includes body/mind/spirit (your beliefs, your practice, etc). Why? Because you incarnated. You chose to have a body, a mind, logic, language. If you had stayed a ball of light, your lessons would be different and occur mainly through osmosis (the only word in language that comes close to describing the work of energy). If you don't do your human growth work along with your Spiritual work/play, your Guides cannot help you. They are not here to help you escape the trials and tribulations of Earth, rather to face them head on so you can clear, grow, expand, enjoy (rather than fake enjoy and posting that on Facebook). Try to keep escaping, examining the lives of others rather than examine why you made the choices you made (and perhaps got in the mess, or relationship you did) and see what your Guides will do. They will escalate the lessons, to get your attention and get you back on track. Escalate-- meaning the lessons roll in harder, often much harder, depending on how stubborn you are or how much you are committed to avoidance (focusing on others, drinking to get high, weed etc to get high, tv, too much sex for the wrong reason, the "whatever" attitude, the "choose happy" attitude chosen for avoidance rather than a change in energy-- the latter being very healthy).
Take care of business, your business, and watch the joy, peace, happiness and new freedoms roll in along with the Spiritual Gifts granted to you by your Guides as you progress. Don't punish your self by only working on yourself, or being stern and working on yourself like you have been bad or need to be "fixed" or punished. Take care of business in a balanced manner. Weave in play, timing, surrender, acceptance, self care and self love, along with warrior energy (yin and yang versions) and make it as fun as you can. See what happens.... this is when the Miracles occur.
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