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The Integrity of Being Non-Judgmental

The Integrity of Being Non-Judgmental This is the Age of Aquarius, yoga, vegan, social media meditations, and most of all to be non-judgmental. So does this mean you love and accept your pedophile neighbor (or NAMBLA for example)? After all they are aligning with the LBGTQIA community as “alternative”. Do you not say anything to your best friend when his/her partner is cheating on them, or stealing from them because you “don’t want to judge” or “be negative”? When does non-judgmental start and end? What if it is really cowardice instead? This is a complex subject that will only be touched upon, explored here in this short article. Native people all over the world, before so-called civilization, did not have police or prisons. Tribal members held each other accountable, on many different levels. You could not act in a way that was harmful to the tribe or tribal members without someone calling you out and bringing you before the Elders, the Shamans, and the Tribal Council etc...

Creating Identities

Creating Identities I’m an empath. I’m transgender. I am a medium. I am a professor. In advertising and marketing this is called “branding”. Branding is used identify and categorize you so people wanting to buy from you (or buy you) can easily find you. This is also a phase of therapy, when you are inventing or re-inventing yourself sometimes for the first time, sometimes over and over again as you grow, or as a survivor of abuse or tragedy.   When people tell me “who” they are, I immediately am suspect. If you are a woman, do you introduce yourself as such, explain how it is a “gift “or talent to “be” a woman, and that you primarily function from yin energy and as such “pick up everyone’s energy” which makes you exhausted because you are so sensitive. I don’t think so. When you are invested in announcing yourself (other than at a job interview, or a marketing event) what is really going on inside of you?   Unfortunately the Western culture seems infatuated with “i...

Teaching People How to Treat You

Teaching People How to Treat You You teach people how to treat you (thank you Dr. Phil). This is true, however sometimes people teach you how you need to treat yourselves. Learning self-respect and balancing that with not getting grandiose or arrogant is a lifelong art. The differences between humble and doormat, self-affirming and narcissistic, helping others and enabling, self-sufficient or using that to hide your shame, the list of balancing acts is endless. Psychic, energetic, and emotional balancing may at first seem overwhelming, but like physical balance which anyone without a physical disability takes for granted, will become pretty automatic after some practice. You will have to make some adjustments, just like you need to do to keep your physical body healthy, but it will not stay a full time job. If you grew up in a dysfunctional family, or suffered trauma (sexual assault, war, extreme poverty, physical violence, alcoholic or drug use family etc.) self-care will have...

From Victim to Survivor to Soul Evolution

From Victim to Survivor to Soul Evolution The process of healing begins with psychological healing however what starts off as psychological healing can then be carried forward to become transformational and part of your Soul Evolution. The original event or circumstances are experienced as a wound and should be. The pain of the occurrence is meant to be a teacher. To shut this down by being stoic, or to minimize what happened to you (or your family, or your race etc.) or to sugar coat the experience with so called positive thinking are the actions of a victim in denial. To feel the pain, to go through it and come out the other side is the journey of a warrior.   This is where you start.   You set up this lesson before you ever incarnated. As a Soul, working with your Sacred Group, with Guidance, you pre-determined these circumstances to create an amazing opportunity to forward your evolution as a Soul.   Accept what happened, which means don’t fight it, don’t deny...