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Suicidal -- the dilemma

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"Razors pain you,  Rivers are damp,  Acids stain you,  And drugs cause cramp.  Guns aren't lawful, Nooses give, Gas smells awful. You might as well live"  Résumé  by Dorothy Parker.  These days, with mandated reporters,woe to the poor person who declares s/he might have a suicidal thought. You will be confiscated, confined, medicated and more. Even though mainstream psychology absolutely knows that it is better to vent, to speak, to share, rather than internalize intense disturbing feelings apparently certain feelings have been labeled dangerous and must be lassoed at all costs.  Yet it is okay, in fact considered normal, for the majority of society to daily and publicly engage in suicidal behaviors..... such as eating into obesity, smoking cancer sticks, functional alcoholism, prescription drug over use (see the stats on death by prescription overdose ),  disconnected sexual encounters, using toxic chemicals in the home and garden.... and so much more. What

How many Ways to have Sex ?

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Sex-- a cheap trick to get attention. But somehow related to learning and growing and soul evolution. Sex, sexual desires and practices are all so very personal, and change during our life time. Sometimes it changes by the minute. So does how we learn, grow and evolve. Learning has no one way, no one answer, and it is a relationship. In sex, the relationship is between a partner or partners, and in learning is a relationship with your current Teacher. Everyone can be our teacher.... however not everyone has a Spiritual Teacher in his/her lifetime.  We are all here for different reasons.... each lifetime.  Like sex, some of us are here to have lots of it, some of us are celibate. Some are here to have casual sex, or sex as a profession. Some are here to be pioneers, or kinky.  Some only experience sex and an incredible Spiritual connection and cannot tolerate casual sex.  None is better than the other.... just different.  We cannot say that everyone needs a Spiritual Teacher.... or ev