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I love you.....therefore I exist

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Modern love. FaceBook status updates. I tell you what I know you want to hear. So I can feel your heart swell.... because of me... of what I said, or gave, or did..... for you.  I tell you I love you on FB so others can know.... that I am part of you, your scene, your accomplishments, and your circle. That because I love you..... I exist. That you exist, for me to love so I can define my perimeters.  I find my existence in my love for you. Do you spend time together.... real time ?  Where people fart, get bored , have really dark sad days sometimes and you come over to eat popcorn or go to the hot springs the next day.  Can you love those who have no accomplishments, are not networked into some industry (new age, healer, author, body work, artist, psychic, coach, etc etc).  Is it someone you love when you are not needy ..... and you call because you just love to talk to each other?   Are you one of the secret friends...... the one they all come crawling to when the shadows start to

Nothing others do is because of you...... Really ? Spirit or Sociopath

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I love the concept of the 4 agreements and the idea of not to take things personally. Taken out of context, and without the courage born out of a personal daily spiritual practice,  this concept can help on develop the sociopathic values of not caring about any one other than one's self,  rather than developing Spiritual Detachment. I have often been recruited by Spirit to participate in someone else's lesson. And I love (not really) how people use this excuse to justify their actions...... that they they were simply used by Spirit in the situation, and it is not about them at all. It all happened as a lesson for the Other Person.  Really ?  I my self have stepped out of many lessons where I felt Spirit was going to "use" me to deliver a "lesson" to another person.  When I stepped out, I always saw that Spirit happily replaced me with another player and the Other Person was still given his/her lesson. If you stay and participate, then you were there to l